Ronnie Joy, The Midlife Dating Coach
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May 21, 2017, 1:00 – 3:00 PM

Increase Your Magnetic Dating Savvy After Cancer

Share this fun and energizing event with single women you know that have had cancer.



February 8, 2017… join me as I speak on Your Personal Dating Game Plan at the Law Offices of Silky Sahnan in Brentwood, CA!

I’ll be speaking on ‘Your Personal Dating Game Plan’ on Wednesday, February 8th at the Law Offices of Silky Sahnan in Brentwood from 11 am to noon. It’s free and I’d love you to join us! I’ll be giving juicy dating tips… whether you’re just getting back into the dating ‘whirl’ again, afraid to start or somewhere in between! RSVP by emailing and include your name(s), number attending in your group and your phone number. You’ll receive a confirmation email reply that includes all the logistics information.

5 Questions with Ronnie Joy, The Midlife Dating Coach!

Law Offices of Silky Sahnan‎ to Your Personal Dating Game Plan

In our speaker spotlight series we take the opportunity to learn more about our guest speaker, Ronnie Joy, The Midlife Dating Coach, with 5 Questions that touch on her life experiences as well as uncover some fun and interesting revelations.

  1. What do you love most about your work?
    RJ: I love to see how my clients’ confidence grows as they gain clarity: about themselves, what they want and the partner they are “calling in.” I love the excitement they feel when they go on their first date–and subsequent dates! I especially love when they tell me they have found “the one!”
  2. What is your motto in life?
  3. What’s one book you’d recommend reading?
    RJ: I’d recommend reading, Amazon International Best Seller “Come Out of Hiding and SHINE.” I’ve joined up with 30 plus co-authors and we’ve delivered amazing self-help, motivating and inspiring messages to encourage others to be seen and heard. My chapter is “Breakdown to Breakthrough.”
  4. What’s one piece of advice you’d give to your younger self?
    RJ: Be gentle with yourself, it’s not your fault. The hardships you are going through will shape and serve you.
  5. What’s one tool or success tip that you would recommend to people who want to build or strengthen their relationship with their significant other?
    RJ: Relationships are a growth opportunity. Differences are inevitable. We all have choice in how we respond to conflict. Listen and really hear your partner. Choose to communicate clearly and compassionately.

*Bonus Question*
What’s one thing you are looking forward to in 2017?
RJ: I’m expanding my practice to serve all midlife singles, including breast cancer survivors wanting to get back into dating and relationships.


Have Them at Hello! Ideas You Never Thought of to Meet Your Lasting Love

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Have Them at Hello! Ideas You Never Thought of to Meet Your Lasting Love

Are you a boomer or midlife single and dating has been anything short of challenging?

Have you attempted to date and have relationships and you’re not getting the results you’ve hoped for?

Want to end the discouraging cycle?

  • Get clear about the partner you are calling in…more than a list of what you want.
  • Learn the nuts and bolts of creating a Magnetic Online Dating Profile!
  • Learn the strategies of Dating in the Wild! Meeting singles in everyday places.
  • Hope, results, and chocolate are included.

What others say about this workshop:

““Hi Ronnie, I had a very enjoyable time at the workshop yesterday. You gave us so much great information in a relatively short timeframe. I liked meeting the other attendees and hearing their issues and questions. Great learnings! I am looking forward to the virtual coaching sessions that you are planning. Thanks again,” C.W.

“Ronnie Joy, you speak from the heart at a deeper level. I’m grateful that you’ve been put in my path to help me with my dating journey. I want a great partner and I’m capable of being a great partner and I don’t want to wait forever…It was refreshing to NOT hear, ‘Here’s how to catch your man.'” L.M

Just like my clients who are now engaged or married or in a long term relationship and happily in love, let me help you be seen by more quality singles.

  • If you’re tired of getting emails from people that “turn you off.”
  • If you’re tired of those dates who just flake out.
  • If you’re tired of not meeting any quality singles.
  • If you’re tired and ready to give up.
  • Let’s change that because love is worth the effort.

Let me repeat that, love is worth the effort and given that almost half of all new relationships happening today, for those over 45, are the result of an online connection, maybe it’s your time to fall in love. I’ll also give you tips on Dating in the Wild! Baby Boomers and Midlife Singles, Take the Step and the Path will Appear.

Another client just got engaged! Take the Step!

Fragrance Free gathering

Contact Ronnie Joy with any questions 510-336-0904


MANifesting or Your Heart’s Desire – What are You Yearning to Call into Your Life?

Create a Vision Board!

MANifesting or Your Heart’s Desire – What are You Yearning to Call into Your Life?

Single or Not, here is a workshop created for you.

Create a Vision Board for your Heart’s Desire!

In this intimate gathering you will:

  • Experience a guided visual meditation led by Ronnie Joy
  • Gain clarity of the life you are calling in
  • Create a visual representation of the life and love you are yearning for
  • Relax and enjoy creating a powerful, transformative tool

Invite your friends, – create a Vision Board for any aspect of your life you’d like to call in or improve, i.e., romance and relationships, health, wealth, career, physical environment, personal growth, friends and family, recreation and fun…

  • Fee includes all materials
  • Fragrance Free workshop
  • No prior experience necessary
  • Refreshments and discussions, too! 

Contact Ronnie Joy with any questions 510-336-0904 or 


Call 510-336-0904 or schedule a Complimentary Confidence with Dating Phone Session here.



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She's Getting Married!!

Hi Ronnie, 

“…Hope all is well with you and that your business and personal life are going well.  And thank you for 'Dating in the Wild!'

I'm excited to tell you that the man I met through the friend, that I invited to the Symphony, has proposed and we are engaged to get married on June 25th!  I have two sons, 20 and 24, and he has a son aged 22. All three are happy for us. My three sisters and two brothers-in-laws are flying out for the wedding. They tell me this is the happiest they've ever seen me in my life!... focusing on myself first made all the difference… it allowed me to relax, and present a happy, confident, strong, and fun side to myself.  

Excerpt from my email to you below from last July:

I spoke with a male friend of mine asking a suggestion of who I might invite to the Symphony last week. He gave me the phone number of his friend who I'd met on a couple of times at gatherings. We had a fantastic evening. He then reciprocated by inviting me to a 3rd of July invite with friends. We shall see where the relationship goes :-)” Carol C.

Loves How I Pretty Up


How much fun it was to have you come over and help me Finally Get Rid of the clothes that don't actually flatter me (I'm not a pack rat, I just didn't honestly have a fashion sense!) - and how empowering it was to go shopping that one time, and now I'm no longer intimidated to go on my own.... But.... I Just Gotta Capture for other doubting folks, this fashion stuff Works from the inside out! I felt different when I started wearing clothes that actually "perked me up!" I was happier, even on the funky, weird-o dates I went on. At least I was happy inside me, which is what counts most of all! And then…I met J. Yup, I was wearing a very adorable short summer dress at the time, Not At All what I would've worn a few months prior!! ;-)
We both knew there was chemistry…We continued to see each other as friends (really! no kissing - can you believe it, at our age?!), and 2 months later, we took it to the next level. And later, J. said to me how much he loved what I wore on our first date, and how beautifully I "pretty up!" (his words for dress up). He so enjoys seeing the fun I have when I put a few extra accessories together (in ways I Never Would've have known before Ronnie Joy!))
- Now, 6 months later, I continue to deepen my awe and appreciation about being "later in life" with this deliciously sweet, tender, present man, who loves how I "pretty up!" ;-)


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