May 21, 2017, 1:00 – 3:00 PM
Increase Your Magnetic Dating Savvy After Cancer
Five days after writing the final edit of my chapter, “Breakdown to Breakthrough,” for the co-authored book, Come Out of Hiding and SHINE, I received a breast cancer diagnosis. I had surgery on June 30, 2016, two weeks after the diagnosis. I’m so grateful for the excellent prognosis. And…I became part of the club that no one wants to be part of.
From the moment I received the diagnosis, I researched and received a crash course in breast cancer. Life became an emotional roller coaster. I’d wake in the night and wake Jack. I had so many questions. “What if…?” I’d ask. Jack gave me the bandwidth to just BE. He’d listen mostly and gave advice when warranted. And he held me. I felt safe and comforted in his arms. He reassured me that we’d get through this together.
Months later, well into my healing, I reflected. I was fortunate for loving friends and family and to have Jack and his loving support and compassion. Little did he and I know, when our wedding officiate stated, “In sickness and in health,” we’d be tested. This was a second marriage for both of us. After my diagnosis, surgery, healing and emotional processing, I saw an amazing side of Jack I’d never seen before. Our love, appreciation and commitment deepened. I know this communication and deepening of relationship is not always the case for those with cancer or a serious illness.
As a dating and relationship coach for baby boomers, I help single women to successfully get back into the dating world after a long term relationship ended and to find their perfect partner. I’d been through the heartbreak of divorce and the time it takes to feel whole and complete again. I felt the deep yearning to find a wonderful partner and share my life. I knew how discouraging dating can be…I’d been there. Fortunately, after my 26 year marriage ended and I ended up dating again (with lots of mistakes!), I became a Certified Soul Coach and developed new strategies for finding my perfect partner. I developed tools to recognize any man that had the same patterns of my former husband or of the men that I’d dated after the divorce. After breast cancer, I have a new found perspective for getting back in the the dating world in midlife. It’s daunting and challenging enough as it is and now add another layer of a cancer diagnosis or a serious illness! My heart goes out to single women who have gone through these serious health challenges and are too afraid to even consider getting back in the dating world, even though they want to find and keep a loving partner. My heart goes out to women in relationships that are daunted by the changes in their bodies and emotions and their partners’ reactions.
Divine Timing is Everything. I have created new dating and relationship coaching programs specifically for women who have had breast cancer. I know their unique fears and challenges. You CAN receive the partner of your dreams and I want to help you every step of the way! The programs are empowering and powerful and I am passionate about sharing them. I’d love you to be part of my Cup of Joy Sisterhood. To find out how I can help you find and keep your perfect partner after breast cancer or navigate the relationship you are currently in, call 510-336-0904 or schedule a Complimentary Confidence with Dating Phone Session here.